5 Signals That a Guy Likes You

bdazzl — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 07:13:33 +0000

By Susan Willis

Wouldn’t it be nice to know exactly what is going on in his mind? It would be great to hook up a special machine to his brain that could just download his thoughts and feelings about you and let you read exactly what is going on in there. Of course, we are many, many years away from that kind of technology (and, I can just hear the right-to-privacy folks screaming bloody murder!).

Okay, back to reality: how can you figure out what he is really thinking and feeling about you? Behavioral psychologists tell us that you can read volumes of information about his true motivations and feelings by paying attention to the verbal and non-verbal signals and gives you.

Here are 5 signals that a guy likes you:

1. He goes out of his way to have physical contact with you

A man on the prowl is a man who will do anything to be close to you. A guy who likes you will try to be around you whenever he can. He will do this in at least two ways:

try to arrange his schedule in order to spend more time in your presence;
when he is in your presence, his next step will be to get as physically close to you as he can, as often as he can.

This can culminate (seemingly innocently, of course) in a series of light brushes, touches, and even gentle pokes or jabs. Make no mistake: all of this physical activity is a sign that he is throwing heavy love vibes your way big time.

2. He talks to you whenever he has the chance

A guy in love is a talkative guy. As you may know, studies show that men speak far fewer words during their lifetimes than do women. Most guys just like to talk less than do most women – it is a scientific fact. However, a guy who likes you will do everything he can to communicate with you as often as possible. If the guy you like is doing lots of talking with you, do not take it as a sign of business as usual: more words mean more feelings of like toward you.

3. He kids with you often

One of the sure-fire things a man will do to show he likes you is to kid with you. Jokes, funny stories, gags, silly songs – all of these are strong signs that he has got a crush in a big way. So, if you notice him pulling out the humor (no matter how silly it may be), take this as a signal that a guy likes you; then, send the love vibes back his way.

4. He compliments you on your looks

Any comments that your guys makes about your looks should be seen as a very positive sign. Even comments of an overtly sexual nature (as long as they are tasteful and respectful) are a good sign that he thinks you are all that.

5. He sometimes acts friendly and at other times ignores you

If your flirtation with this guy has been going on for a long while, he may be getting a bit frustrated at the lack of progress thus far. One signal that he may give you that indicates this pent-up sexual frustration is frequent changes in his behavior. He may give you lots of attention one day, acting very friendly – and then completely ignore you the next day. Rest assured, he is probably not playing mind games with you; he just likes you and wants things to go to the next phase. So, take a bold step forward and make it happen with him.

If you are getting the strong love signals from him, don’t you think it time to take things to the next level? Educate yourself on what works and get started on your love adventure!

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How to Attract Girls Successfully Regardless of What You Look Like Or How Much You Earn

bdazzl — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 11:26:35 +0000

Dating is a game and if you don’t have the rule book, then you’re going to lose big time. Figuring out how to attract girls is key to your success and in this article you’ll find some great tips.

First of all realize that most women and girls are not looking for a guy who’s rich, gorgeous, or tall dark and handsome. Yes there are some girls and women who put these things high on their list, but would you really want to have women and girls like that in your life anyway? I think not, so don’t even worry about girls like that.

Truth is most women have their own money and their own careers, so figuring out how to attract girls, means understanding that all that you need is confidence and real sense of who you are. Get these two powerful elements working hand in hand and you’ve figured out how to attract girls.

These two points matter because girls need to feel that the guy they’re with will be someone she can very easily introduce to her family and her friends. A guy who is not sure of himself, who hides from who he is and is shy is not someone that her family and friends are going to go "Wow!" about when they meet him. Every girl or woman wants to feel envied and special and so this is why the guy that she steps out with, needs to be very sure of himself, but without being cocky.

It also matters to a girl because any guy that can project a positive outlook is a happy guy and that’s what a girl wants. She’s not interested in anyone who is miserable and constantly kicking himself and beating up on himself.

So be that confident and self-assured guy and your rewards with women will mean that you are the the guy who will get the girl.

However, if you know you cannot lift your confidence, or you just don’t have the skills to figure out the dating game on your own, then you need to read a review of a great seduction guide. Click on the link now and find the Guy Gets Girl review.

I’m sure you’ll find that it is the guide you need to help you figure out how to attract girls.

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